Why you are trying too hard with women…

Why you are trying too hard with women…





I have a good friend who teaches people how to get rich in real estate. He’s very successful, both in real estate, and in teaching, and rightfully claims to have produced more millionaire students than anyone else in real estate. I’ve met a lot of his students—and I believe him.



Now, do you think he teaches his students to “work hard?” No, not at all. In fact, his favorite saying (which he repeats ad infinitum, some would say ad nauseum) is “the less I do, the more I make.”



There’s a lot of wisdom in that because it makes his students focus on creating systems that filter out the bad deals and only bring them the good ones. That way his students sit back and let the deals come to them. When they go to finalize a deal, it happens effortlessly—there is no “trying” at all.



The exact same thing works with women whether they approach you, or you approach them. “The less you do, the more they are attracted,” is a very apt saying. Think about it: the guy who goes out to “lay down a rap,” to “work the numbers game” almost always goes home with an empty wallet—and nothing more. He’s trying too hard. He’s pushing. He comes across as desperate—and women can smell desperation a mile away.



Now consider this: you’re talking to an attractive woman, and all you do is ask her questions about herself. She talks, you listen. You’re interested in her, but only a little bit. She picks on the interest, but also on the degree of it. She starts asking herself, “why is this guy only slightly interested in me, when all the other guys slobber all over me?” And that creates a challenge, framing you as a mysterious, intriguing guy—the type women go crazy over.



What did you do to create this attraction? Not too dang much at all. In fact, you actively refrained from doing the normal “oh yeah, I’m interested in you” stuff. All you did was ask a few questions, and listen to what she had to say. You made a few comments to let her know there’s more to you… but didn’t tell her what that more was. She has to WORK to find out what that more is, and women go crazy for a man who makes them work.



So next time you’re talking to a woman, remember, “the less you say and do, the more she’s attracted.” She’ll do all the work for you if you just let her.



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